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  • May 21, 2019

    10 things to do to survive an emotionally abusive relationship

    Emotional abusers tend to look for people with no (or flexible) boundaries, a passive personality, Empaths, Fixers, etc. They love it when their victim lets them get away with the abuse. They love it when their victim is willing to isolate and abandon all friends and family for them. They love it when their victim…

  • March 27, 2019

    What is faith? How does it develop?

    Jean Piaget was one of the most influential psychological researchers in the area of cognitive development. He developed the four stages of cognitive development theory that shows how an individual’s neurobiological development moves through infancy to adulthood. In the 1950s, psychologist Lawrence Kohlberg began to formulate new ideas based upon Piaget’s theory that analyzed how…

  • March 18, 2019

    Why being “sensitive” is not a put-down

    Have you identified with being an empath, having a sixth sense, or grew up being labeled as too sensitive? You may have Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS). At the beginning of the twentieth century, Carl Jung was one of the first to notice that some individuals were born with a propensity for being more sensitive than…

  • March 5, 2019

    Healing spiritual trauma through personal truths

    Kruk describes “spiritual affliction” as a diminishment of faith in others, hope for a better future, and a capacity to give love to others.  While I believe that all of these are a part of spiritual affliction, they are mostly connected to emotion about others.  These could be defined as emotional trauma because faith in…

  • March 4, 2019

    How the church fosters codependency

    As a girl, I grew up going to Al-Anon meetings with my mother. Al-Anon is a meeting for those living with an individual struggling with alcoholism–as was my step-father. One of the primary teachings in Al-Anon is about codependency–“a behavioral condition in a relationship where one person enables another person’s addiction, poor mental health, immaturity,…

  • February 24, 2019

    What you need to know about toxic stress

    Stress is a universal part of the human experience. More often than not, the stress we experience on a day-to-day basis is tolerable—meaning, we have the coping skills and support to endure it. There is, however, another kind of stress that is not so common has been referred to as toxic stress.  Toxic stress, or…

  • February 11, 2019

    What it means when a narcissistic pastor says, “I love the church”

    I ran across this article while going through a rough place in my life.  It had profound meaning for me in dealing with some of the individuals in my life that have narcissistic traits. The article highlights the fact that when a narcissist says, “I love you,” he really means that he loves the way that you…

  • February 11, 2019

    I visited a Mosque- and went to church

    Today, our local International Rescue Committee organization hosted a solidarity event at the Islamic Society of Wichita while their members were gathering for Friday prayers.  We stood outside, held signs, and let them know that we are with them.  That we are for them. But before the event I met my new friend, Ratna, for a tour…

  • February 11, 2019

    Why I taught my kids to question authority

    My generation gets a lot of flak for being “disrespectful” to the older generation.  I have heard them say that it is because we are entitled brats that have been handed everything that we could possibly ever ask for without delayed gratification.  We get exactly what we want when we want it. While that may…

  • February 11, 2019

    Church, our Borderline Mother

    Let’s look at Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).  The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) states: “Borderline personality disorder is a mental illness marked by an ongoing pattern of varying moods, self-image, and behavior. These symptoms often result in impulsive actions and problems in relationships. People with borderline personality disorder may experience intense episodes of anger,…

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